Being a human myself i know how hard it is to feel good or even okay with your body and appearance and i know how much it can seriously bring you down. No matter what your weight, shape, size, hair colour, skin colour, eye colour is, i want you to know that you are perfect and that you are beautiful!
This subject is very popular with teens and i, being a teen myself understand the strain body image and appearance brings. I'm not going to pretend I'm some big expert on the subject because frankly, I'm still trying to understand it and understand why we live in a society where if you don't have a perfect weight (if that's even a real thing) or the longest legs or the whitest teeth you're seen as mediocre.
On almost every coming of age movie I've seen, it includes an 'overweight' or 'underweight' girl/boy that learns to love their body and what they see when they look into the mirror while the victorious music plays in the background. The fact is, that doesn't always happen and if it does, it certainly takes more than a few weeks to achieve. The few success stories that have happened do include the person going through tough stages in their life, some even suicidal thoughts or attempts. Please know that I'm not trying to dis-hearten you or make you give up, i just don't want you to hop into something that takes so long to achieve that you end up giving up. It is possible and you can do it, but it does take A LOT of effort.
I am 14 years old and everyone and i mean everyone calls me 'skinny' and i think that is basically like calling an overweight person 'fatty' but apparently it's socially acceptable to say one but the other would be classed as being a bitch. I wish i could change my look, but i can't. I wish i could have curves and hips and boobs and every girl wanting my figure, but i don't. I try to put on weight but i can't. It's not that i don't eat because i do (far too much to be honest) it's just that i have very high metabolism and if i do end up putting a little bit of weight on, it goes straight to my stomach. Nowhere else unfortunately.
Before you start thinking 'you're acting like a spoilt brat, you have a high metabolism, I'd kill for that' you really wouldn't. At least people who don't have it have the ability to diet or go on a fitness regime. I can't do anything. Saying that, i don't want to put a picture in your head that I'm anorexic in any way because I'm most certainly NOT. I enjoy stuffing my face with pasta, pizza, ice cream, chocolate, crisps and every possible food you could think of. I am a healthy weight but i just don't like the LOOK of my body. I have 'knobbly knees' and a 'bony bum' as some like to call it but oh well! So what if people look at us weirdly? So what if people aren't 'satisfied' with us (unless it's a nurse, doctor or anyone with a medical degree) ?! We shouldn't care what they think! And we certainly shouldn't have to change ourselves for them! I want everyone reading this to know that YOU-yes YOU- are PERFECT and you WILL find happiness in yourself, it just might take a little longer than we hoped!
So, I'm making a promise to stop saying to myself that i don't like my appearance because you know what? I'm a perfect nutter (yes, that was an Angus, Thongs and Perfect Snogging quote, had to fit one in somewhere) and so are YOU!












